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As much as we hate to admit it, our image plays an important role in how we are perceived by others and how successful we can be in life. Being image conscious doesn’t mean you are vain or self-absorbed. In fact, being more conscious about the image that you are presenting is very smart. I wrote a how to article about how to create the image you want to have. I speak entirely from experience in this article because I followed these steps to create the image that I have maintained since college. Growing up, I was always a shy kid that rarely spoke my mind. People seemed to think I was a mousy person and I resented that at times because I wasn’t mousy at all. I hope that this article can help some of you ladies that may want to change how the world perceives you.
“Image is Everything” is one of the most true sayings. Your image is an important part of how you are perceived. Perception is reality and the image you have affects how successful you will be overall. Here is how to create the image that you want for yourself.
1. Determine what kind of image you currently have. A good way to do this is by asking your close friends and family to give their perception of you. Make sure that they are being frank in this description. You would be surprised at how you are viewed as opposed to how you view yourself. Another way to determine your current image is by paying close attention to how people deal with you. If you take some time to step outside of yourself a bit and observe how the people around you react to you, it would give you some interesting insight into your current image.
2. Determine the type of image you would like to have. The way you would like people to perceive you will affect how you go about creating your image.
3. Determine how your current image differs from your desired image. This includes taking a long hard look at your wardrobe as well. You have to see the areas you need to change so that you can work on actually changing them. This requires being very objective about your perceived image and your desired image.
4. Start taking steps to changing your perceived image. The easiest way would be to start with your wardrobe and go from there. It’s usually easier to focus on dressing the part first. Besides, once you start dressing the part, you will begin to feel the part and then ultimately you will become the part.
5. Work on making your new image a direct reflection of who you are. This isn’t an easy or quick process but it is important and must be done. Take your time with it and enjoy the journey.
Tips and Warnings
Be honest with yourself. If at any time the image you are creating starts to feel forced or false, take a step back. It is important that your image be an extension of your true self and not simply a mask.
To read the article in it’s entirety, visit http://www.ehow.com/how_2246147_image-want-have.html
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